I was recently chatting with a mom of an 11-year old and she was reflecting on how busy her child was. Between camps, sports and other activities--their summer was packed full. She then turned to me and asked what I had my daughter signed up for over the summer. I looked at E, playing happily with her brother, and then back at the other mom and said, simply, "nothing."
It was sort of a happy accident because my intention was to sign E up for a couple of activities. But I missed one deadline and as I was looking at the other activity I started to change my mind.
First of all, E just finished a full year of preschool. She only did 3 mornings a week, but when it was over she was very excited to stay home and play with her brother and friends.
She also participated in dance throughout the school year. One night a week and a recital at the completion of the year. It was a lot of fun, but, again, she was ready for a break.
And finally, we, as a family, have a lot going on this summer. Between various trips, my sister's wedding, and other commitments, I was starting to realize that whatever we would enroll her in, she would have to miss some time.
I'm not opposed to E being in activities and I know that the amount of things that she's involved with will grow as she grows. I think organized activities are really good for the development of children and is why I've had E involved in various things. It's also why as a stay-at-home mom I wanted to enroll my daughter in some preschool. But I sometimes feel like there's this pressure to have every minute of my children's lives scheduled and planned. And I'm trying to resist--if for only another year or two.
Like I said, the older she (and her brother) get, I know there will be more and more they are interested in and involved with. But right now I'm enjoying my little 4-year old (and 3-year old) and summer and all the free time we have, together.
I hope you're enjoying your summer, too!
xo Sara
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